Myths About Small Guns Women Should Ignore
- Mariah Lynn
- Mar 18
- 3 min read
🚫 Myth: “Women should carry tiny guns because they’re easier to shoot.”
✅ Truth: Small guns = more recoil and harder control. Choose what fits your hands!
🚫 Myth: “Concealability” With proper technique, mid-size guns can be just as concealable.
✅ Truth: Small guns = Not enough surface area for firm control, impacting accuracy.
Choosing the Right Handgun for Your Needs
Small guns aren’t automatically easier to shoot. Though marketed as cute and convenient, micro firearms often have increased recoil, limited round capacity, and less ergonomic grips. They’re frequently not chambered in the preferred 9mm and can be just as concealable as a larger handgun that better fits your hand. Choose a firearm designed for your comfort and control—what’s the worst gun advice you’ve ever received?
There’s a common myth in the self-defense world: women should carry tiny, “cute” guns because they’re easier to shoot. In reality, smaller firearms often bring challenges like increased recoil and limited control. When it comes to your safety, the right fit is what matters most—not the smallest size.
Why Smaller Guns May Not Be the Best Choice
Consider these drawbacks often found in micro firearms:
• Worse Recoil: The compact size can intensify felt recoil, making rapid follow-up shots more difficult.
• Smaller Round Count: Fewer rounds mean you might have less firepower when you need it most.
• Limited Grip: A smaller grip may not offer enough surface area for firm control, impacting accuracy.
• Non-9mm Options: Many micro firearms aren’t chambered in 9mm—the caliber most preferred for self-defense.
• Concealability Misconception: With proper holsters, mid-size or full-sized handguns can be just as concealable.
• Ergonomics & Customization: Larger models often provide better ergonomics and more options for customization, allowing you to tailor your firearm to your hand’s unique shape.
Top Micro Firearms Marketed Toward Women that I wish men would
🛑 STOP ✋ buying for their wives.
While many manufacturers tout micro models as the ideal solution, here are a list of firearms I personally would heavily avoid:
1. Ruger LCP/LC9s
2. Literally any small snub nose revolver often available in pink or teal
3. Glock 43
4. Kimber Micro 9
5. Kahr PM9
6. KelTec P32
If you want to know where I would start looking instead…
Common Concerns and Personal Experiences
I often hear comments like, “My husband got me this, but I don’t like it,” or, “I got the Sig P365 but I wish I got the P365 XL.” These sentiments highlight a common issue: the influence of marketing and external advice rather than personal comfort. It’s crucial to test different models and sizes, ensuring that your chosen firearm naturally fits your hand and shooting style.
In addition, proper training and regular practice are essential. Handling different models under professional supervision can reveal which firearm you can control best under stress. Comfort and confidence in your weapon can make all the difference in a self-defense situation.
Manufacturers are continually improving designs, yet the decision remains personal. Your ideal handgun should complement your unique grip, hand size, and comfort level—factors that aren’t always addressed by the “micro” label. Take the time to try various options and listen to your body’s response to each model.
Size matters. Ladies don’t like small guns. Something midsized fits most of us best.
Jokes aside I wish the firearms community would stop with the “pink it and shrink it” marketing campaigns. We deserve something nice to grip onto. Dispelling the myth that smaller guns are inherently easier to shoot is vital for making an informed choice. Instead of settling for a micro firearm based solely on its size or marketing claims, focus on selecting a handgun that offers superior control, capacity, and comfort. Ultimately, your safety depends on choosing a firearm that fits you perfectly—because confidence in your equipment is the best defense of all.
Thank you for coming to my TedTalk, Feel free to share your experiences or the worst gun advice you’ve received down below. Your story might help another woman make a better, safer choice.
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